|Christina Valdez called the news to share the Catastrophe award her daughter’s teacher gave her for excuses for missed homework|
I took on the Catastrophe award story in my column at the Politics of Raising Children at The Washington Times Communities. Here is an excerpt:
Tucson, Arizona resident Christina Valdez called the local news to share the fact that her daughter Cassandra Garcia’s teacher gave her the “Catastrophe Award” for “Most Excuses for Not Having Homework” in front of the entire class, prompting her classmates to laugh.
Valdez said in a report that she had no clue her daughter wasn’t turning in her assignments on time.
Some are up in arms and are upset at the teacher for employing what they call humiliation of a child to get a point across and allege the teacher ought to privately instruct the child and her parent of the lapse.
There is a very high likelihood that there were warning signs that Ms. Valdez ignored. A child who has missed that many assignments must have had grades over the course of the entire school year to reflect that absent work. And if so, Valdez doesn’t look like she did her part to inquire about those bad grades. But even before getting to that point, had she been doing what every parent should do and check a child’s homework for completion each night, she would easily have been clued in well before the end of the year.
Rather it appears that she elected to ignore the warning signs, perhaps failed to take a proactive role to inquire on her child’s progress, and then comes well after the fact to complain about an award, which perhaps was harsh and probably unnecessary.
My recently turned 7-year old is in the first grade and has a no nonsense teacher who expects the best, has the strictest standards when it comes to attendance, promptness, completion of work, turning in of homework and classroom discipline. She has a military background and she demands excellence of her pupils.
Over the course of the year, my son has developed into a child who takes personal responsibility for completing his work without prodding or reminders, insists on us getting him to school punctually (though we don’t always succeed) and does his best to turn in the best work possible. And he is seven. This kid is 8 –years-old. That is plenty old enough to understand she has the obligation and duty to do her work each day.
Now some may say this teacher is too strict and her methods may cause humiliation. They may want her to be more warm and affectionate with the children. While perhaps that may be ideal for some children and parents, there is no doubt that kids who leave her class go into the next grade better students.
Her job is to prepare them for advancing along the school system and excelling. She isn’t there to be their friends. She is paid to teach, instruct and educate.
This incident is reflective of what’s wrong in many households in America where some are opting to focus on the teacher, not the child or parent. There are most likely more parents who are not taking the time each evening to assist their children with homework and being active parents than teachers imploring what some call “humiliation” in their teaching methods.