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5 Fact-Filled Halloween Infographics

We love a good infographic and there are so many great ones we’ve seen this Halloween season. We want to share as many as possible but narrowed down to five really good ones choc full of  bite-sized trivia and info.

Check out our favorite information packed graphics we discovered on Visual.ly to share. They are about popular costumes through the years, costumes that let you dress up your eyes, pets Halloween costumes and staying safe on Halloween. Good stuff!

Halloween Pop-Costume Index
by lglynn.

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Halloween Costumes: Pop Culture Favorites
by Lemon.ly.

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Halloween Costume Ideas
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Creatures and Costumes
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Halloween Safety Facts
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Most Searched For Halloween Costumes
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7 Ways to Save on Halloween Candy, Costumes and Fun

Halloween is now reported to be the send most expensive holiday of the year! Even though we don’t exchange expensive gifts on Halloween, it is easy to rack up big bills on costumes and candy. The good news is that there are many easy ways to save money on Halloween expenses without compromising on the fun. 
Stephanie Nelson of www.CouponMom.com offers these 7 tips on how Halloween costumes, candy and fun:
1. Be creative. It can cost $35 to $50 for many popular children’s costumes at party stores, which adds up quickly if you have more than one child. With a little creativity, you and your children can make easy costumes with items you have around the house. You can also shop at a local thrift store to buy vintage clothing to use as costumes.
2. Research ideas on-line. My favorite costume idea resource is FamilyFun.com, which lists 100 easy and inexpensive costumes you can create at home — whether you have a few hours or only a few minutes to put an outfit together. 
3. Don’t overbuy. If you live in a neighborhood, you will most likely be buying candy to give out on Halloween night. The challenge is to avoid overbuying — who wants bags of leftover candy when the kids come home with far more than they need?  If you are nervous your stash won’t last, consider buying Hershey’s Kisses or similar chocolate candy that you can use later for holiday baking. 
4. Look for coupons. You can also save money on candy and costumes by watching for store sales and coupons in the Sunday coupon circulars or in your mailbox. Find coupons in the Sunday newspaper ads throughout October. 
5. Carve a pumpkin. The easiest decoration that is also fun for kids is carving a pumpkin together. For just a few dollars, you can create a memorable annual tradition with your child and decorate your front porch or window at the same time. Save the seeds and find a recipe for roasted pumpkin seeds, as well. 
6. Get crafty. You can find plenty of inexpensive Halloween decorating projects from books in the library, local family magazines distributed free at libraries and schools.  Easier projects include making ghosts to hang in the window made out of string, glue and waxed paper. Doing a project with your children will be much less expensive and far more memorable than shelling out $100 for decorations at the local party store. 
7. Save on admission. This is the time of year for pumpkin festivals, Halloween fairs, hayrides, haunted house tours and more. Many schools and churches offer free festivals and fairs as family-friendly alternatives on Halloween.Prices for these family events vary widely, from free to as much as $20 a head. Check the local event websites or the calendar section in community newspapers and magazines to find inexpensive events. 
 Be on the lookout for admission coupons in your local paper and check the web sites of Festival sponsoring organizations to find printable coupons for reduced admissions.  Your local grocery store may sell discounted tickets for these events either on their Web site or at their customer service counter in the store.

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Holidays Overeating Season Starts Soon: 5 Ways to prepare your Tummy to Handle it

Traditionally, Halloween starts the three month seasons of excess eating candy, large family meals, sweets and treats.

All of this excessive eating can wreak havoc on your digestive system, and leave you with an unpleasant, upset stomach.

You don’t have to wait until you need antacid, instead there are things you can change about your diet and lifestyle to stave off the need for medicine.

Michele McRae, Certified Nutrition at Rainbow Light offers her tips to help you naturally soothe digestion and make your holiday meal – and the recovery – a much better experience.

1. Hit the veggies: Reach for the fiber-rich appetizers and food. They will help you feel full and absorb excess liquid in your body. Fiber also normalizes the rate at which food moves through the digestive tract.

Fresh veggies, fruit platters and salsa are healthy choices that will help you feel full and make you less likely to overindulge on complex carbs and fatty foods that are often difficult to digest.

2. Drink water: Don’t forget to drink plenty of water each day. The dry air and being indoors can dehydrate your system, as can alcoholic beverages. While at a party, alternate alcohol with water to cut calories and keep your digestive system hydrated.

3. Don’t skip a meal to “save calories”: Rather than skipping lunch, choose a healthy salad with low-fat dressing. The added fiber will help keep you regular and you will be less likely to overindulge later.

4. Get some exercise: Exercise can help you manage the stress of the season and keep your digestion system active. So have a snowball fight, go sledding, and join in any dance off at the party!

5. Take Digestive Enzymes: If your stomach is still out of sorts, not to worry! Try a digestive enzyme supplement to help ease you through the holiday season. Here’s one to try: Rainbow Light Nutritional System’s Advanced Enzyme Optima.

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Tech companies pay for their female employees’ egg freezing

Ladies, no more worrying about your fertility while you slave away to the top of the corporate ladder at Facebook and Apple
Both tech companies pay for their female employees to freeze their eggs through oocyte cyopreservation. Facebook’s program launched this past January for women wanting to delay starting their family while their eggs aged.
Apple recently announced plans to start its program in early 2015. The companies will offer up to $20,000 for the cost of the procedure ($10,000) and $500 per year storage costs under their health benefit programs for fertility and surrogacy.
The younger the woman is when she opts to harvest her fertile eggs, the better chances she has to become pregnant later. Given the fact that fertility decreases as women age, women in their 20s and 30s in highly competitive fields like technology may find egg freezing an  attractive alternative for ensuring they’ll be later able to carry their own child to term in the future…after cracking that glass ceiling, maybe?
In the debate over gender pay equity, stats and analysts point to the fact that women who have babies may return to work part time or leave the work world altogether after baby which contributes to the overall pay gap.
Programs like this help women stay competitive with men who don’t have to take time off to have a baby.
Or, as some critics say, they hurt by forcing women to work longer and harder for their employers’ bottom line without letting pregnancy interfere with their profit potential.
Which is it? Weigh in.
originally posted at Techyaya.com

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Birth Order Rules: How to care for your Eldest child

Following up on our post on caring for an Only Child, Middle Child, Extrovert and Introvert Child, here is a great excerpt from Education.com on caring for that Eldest child. 
Did you know that almost all of the U.S. presidents were either the firstborn child or the firstborn son in their families? All but two of the first astronauts sent into space were firstborns, and the other two were “only children.” The eldest child is more likely to be confident, organized, intelligent, determined, eager to please, and a leader. This is also the sibling more prone to become a CEO, win a Nobel Prize, and be more academically successful as well as financially secure.24 There’s no doubt that being the firstborn has clear advantages. This is the only child who will receive our undivided attention and one-on-one time, and research shows that this makes a big difference in how they turn out.
A Norwegian study led by psychologist Petter Kristenson meticulously analyzed IQ scores of 250,000 men and found that the oldest child is smarter than the next oldest sibling by an average of 2.3 points (who in turn beat the third-born brother by 1.1 points).25 Although 2.3 points may seem measly, in today’s test-crazed society they can be just enough to give a child an academic edge and be the difference between earning a B+ or an A, going to a state school or a university. But here’s the real kicker: if the eldest child dies, the second sibling becomes the smartest one. That means it’s not just the birth order that boosts those IQ points but the dynamics in the family and how the firstborn is treated. It appears that our parenting really does make a difference when it comes to giving our eldest a clear intellectual edge.
With all those positives, how could there possibly be a problem with being the oldest kid? Well, consider things from your eldest’s view. There is a downside to being the oldest, and even though you can’t change his family rank, there are a few solutions to help this kid turn out the best he can be (as well as relax and enjoy life just a tad more).

  1. Focus on your other kids. Watch out! A few researchers find that parents do have favorites, and as much as we’d never admit it, we often favor our firstborn child. After all, that first birth is a life-changing, incredible event. And although that’s a huge boost for your elder kid’s self-esteem, it also can fuel sibling rivalry. Those jealousies can linger for a long time and cause a wedge between your eldest and his younger sibs. So beware of your interactions with your kids and ask yourself now and then, “Does each child feel I love him best?”
  2. Watch those responsibilities. We give our elder kids more responsibilities, and we just plain expect more of them at a younger age. But are you expecting too much? The eldest kid hates being told, “You’re in charge of the house until I get back” or “You’re the oldest, so I expect more of you.” Every now and then take a reality check to make sure you’re not imposing too many responsibilities on this kid or treating him as if he were older than his chronological age. (And do temper those “You’re the man around the house” comments at least until he (or she) comes of age.)
  3. Relax and take ten. Although the firstborn has the clear advantage of having our undivided attention (at least until the next sibling comes along), he also stands the chance of being the most stressed. We really are stricter with our eldest child and let their younger siblings get away with far more.26 We do inflate our expectations a bit for our first and expect more from him. Because this is our first-time parenting experience, we’re more overly anxious in our response to this kid.27 It’s one reason the firstborn child usually is more anxious—our expectations and stress rub off on him. Take a few deliberate breaths before responding to your first (he is also more clued in to your reactions and feeds off your stress). And maybe pare down those expectations just a wee, wee bit.
  4. Let your child go his own way. Birth dynamics play an interesting role in how our kids turn out. We are tenser and have higher expectations for our oldest, and he tends to be a less of a risk taker, sticking to the path we’ve forged for him. Research also finds that we encourage our eldest child to pursue more cognitive and analytical interests that could lead to more prestigious careers like law or medicine.28 (We also tend to be more open and relaxed with our younger child and far more receptive to letting him stray off that “straight and narrow” path to follow his more artistic and creative interests and become the poet or graphic artist.) The key is to identify from the get-go your oldest child’s unique passions and strengths so that he can become his own person and develop those interests that may lead him to the career of his dreams. And while you’re at it, encourage him to deviate a bit from the norm, take a risk, and think outside the box as his younger siblings do.
  5. Let your child tutor his younger sibling. The eldest child has another benefit: he has a younger sibling to help. “Can you teach your brother how to read?” “Will you show your sister how to turn on the computer?” Teaching someone a skill helps not only the tutored but also the tutor. In fact, in many cases, the oldest child gains the most (IQ-wise, anyway) from teaching his younger sibling. So, assuming he’s willing and has the time, encourage your eldest to mentor and teach. Just remember to use the same strategy for your other kids so they can benefit as well.
  6. Watch out for allergies. A review of over fifty studies found that the oldest kids are more likely to suffer from hay fever, eczema, and other allergies.29 One hypothesis: the eldest is overprotected and not exposed to those germs and bacteria, and so is far more susceptible to colds and likely to develop a weaker immune system (whereas the younger siblings battle the bugs at home before they start school and develop a stronger immune system to fight off those germs later on). Some doctors contend that all those colds firstborn kids tend to catch are really allergies in disguise. (The most pronounced symptom of an allergy is an itchy nose and no fever, ache, or chills.)

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Not Just for Baby: 17 other uses for breast milk

Yesterday, I learned for the first time from friends that is has been well known that breast milk is great for solving eye irritations for any person, not just the baby.  My first thought is, hmmm so you catch pink eye and instead of going to the pharmacy for eye drops, you go across the street and ask your lactating neighbor, “may I borrow a cup of your breast milk?”Too Funny. 
So some research revealed there are lots and lots of uses for breast milk that many people probably were clueless about, such as the fact that Hospitals use donated breast milk to soothe the scars of burn unit victims! Wow! 
Check out some other uses listed by a breastfeeding site:
Breast milk and its uses
Other uses for breast milk…
All of the below uses for breast milk or breast milk cures can be used for the whole family…
1.  Pink eye breast milk (eye infections). You can put a few drops of breast milk into baby’s eyes or any family members who are suffering from pink eye. The breast milk will keep the area clean and will initiate healing. You can do this as often as possible.


2. Eye puffiness or redness. Wonderful for removing puffiness and is used just as you would cows milk for the same purpose. Dab on with some cotton wool.


3. Opening a stuffy nose. Breast milk is natural and a great alternative to medications which might even make the situation worse. Just squirt a few drops into baby’s nose while he is lying down, then use a bulb to suction the excess out from his nose.
4. Sore throats and mouth sores. Swirling some of the breast milk around in the mouth and even gargling with it can help. Even a breastfed baby can be given some breast milk in a cup to rinse out the mouth.


5. Eczema and other skin rashes. Breast milk will keep the skin clean and will prevent flare ups. Just apply a layer of breast milk to the area and allow to air dry.


6. Dry skin. Using breast milk as a moisturizer.


7. Cradle cap. Just apply to baby’s scalp a few times per day.


8. Breast milk diaper rash. Using breast milk to treat and prevent normal nappy rash.
9. Breast milk ear infections. Squirt a few drops inside the ear for healing and some pain relief. (can be used for infants and grown-ups)


10. Insect bites. Rub a small amount on the bite to relieve the itching and promote the healing process.


11. Chicken pox. Apply the breast milk on the skin to relieve itching just as you would any other ointment.


12. Warts. Apply daily on the wart until it dries up and falls off.


13. Treating sore nipples. Putting some breast milk on your nipples can often heal them faster than any over the counter nipple cream. It can also prevent cracking by keeping them supple.


14. Immune boost. Older children can be given a glass of breast milk or more everyday to boost their immune systems and keep them from becoming ill.


15. Ease cold/flu symptoms. Get over your cold quicker with some liquid gold breast milk. Drink as much as you can.
16.  Make-up remover. Breast milk can naturally and easily remove eye make-up.
17. Skin cleanser. Breast milk will gently cleanse your skin and can prevent acne because of its antibacterial properties.
Well now you know!! 

10 ways to encourage a kid to read more

Reading is a skill that your child will master at some point. Every child learns at a different pace and in different ways, however, so be patient with the process. In the meantime, here are some tips to encourage healthy reading habits in your child.

1. Visit the library – The library is a magical place for children! Help your child register for her own library card so that she can check out books independently. This independence will allow her to choose the books she’d like to read and help her become responsible for taking care of those treasures. Encourage her to look for books she is interested in, show her where to ask for help if she can’t find something and allow her to make her own choices.

2. Read to and with your child daily – About 30 minutes of reading per day is what is recommended to encourage healthy reading habits in your child. Start at a young age by reading to your child and then gradually transition to him reading out loud to you. The reading doesn’t have to be done all at once, but can be broken up into smaller, more manageable slices of time.

3. Role model at home – Children who see the adults around them engaging in reading are more likely to follow your example.

4. Write short notes to your child – Put them in lunch boxes, backpacks or leave them on the counter for your child to read. You can write about anything; tell her that you love her, leave her a small fact to read or even write down her chores for her!

5. Ask open-ended questions about the story that you are reading – Asking your child open-ended questions will encourage him to think about what is going to happen next in the story and to put together what has already happened. Ask him how he’d have the story end or to predict what he thinks will happen next in the story. Once you read more of the story, look back on your discussion and compare his thoughts to the actual story line.

6. Use context to check vocabulary words – Throughout your life you use context to check the meaning of words you don’t know, so encourage your child to do the same. It’s an essential life skill.

7. Practice writing skills – Reading and writing go hand in hand because you learn one while you are learning the other! Have your child practice sounding out words while she is writing, encourage her to create her own story with illustrations and have her write letters to people in your family (and have others write back to her!).

8. Let them pick the books that they read – Giving your child ownership of the books he chooses will mean that he is more involved in the reading process from the beginning. Encourage him to read the classics as well, but let him pick out what he is interested in reading.

9. Make reading fun – While you are reading together have her act out stories, recreate them or illustrate them how she thinks it should be done!

10. Play reading related games – Choose games that require reading to play together. Games that involve word play (Scrabble or Boggle), games with cards that you read (Fluxx or Pictionary) or games that require you to read spaces (Life or Monopoly) all encourage children to read independently while playing.

h/t 4Nannies.com

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10 Photos of Kids Risking their Lives to get to School

This morning, my 12-year old was complaining about having to transfer his stuff  and walk from my SUV to my husbands Sedan after we made a last minute switch on who would drive the kids to school. 
My husband recalled seeing some of AmusingPlanet.com photos of children traversing some very dangerous terrain and conditions to get to school, and quickly pulled it up on his smartphone to remind our tween of how good he has it!
Here are a few to show your kids when and if they ever pitch a fit about walking a few feet or taking a bus to get to school. Click HERE to get the back story to each image. 
You’re welcome!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Search for Fall/Pumpkin Festival this Fall to Go To

October is a month many families take their kiddies to the pumpkin patch or to harvest festivals to enjoy a hay ride, feed some farm animals and pick pumpkins to take home and carve. While at farms, many families get to pick up some home made jams, fresh produce and other local harvest treats. 
If you are looking for a festival in your region, here is a website that lets you input  your location and will give you a pretty generous listing of area festivals.  FESTIVALS.COM.
Have Fun! 

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These 2 Family Households Tasks are THE most time consuming

There are two piles that will perpetually exist in any

family home on any given time of the day at any given month of the year: 
1) a

pile of papers, bills, school forms to be sorted through;
2.) And a pile of

laundry waiting to be sorted.
If you are not one of the ones fortunate enough to have a

butler, personal assistant, housekeeper and/or nanny as part of your household

staff, the burden will fall on you to process and manage the cycle of laundry

and papers that navigate in and out of the space that exist on your entry door

table, the kitchen and/or dining room table, and various spots on the floor in

different rooms of the house.
Papers! Papers! Where did all this Paper come From?!
For me, once a month, I go through the seemingly endless

pile of junk mail, bills, and advertisement mailers, and through the mounds  of crumpled up stuff I

found from emptying  bottoms of my kids’

bookbags of lost birthday party invitations, school trip forms, test papers

with the blank line for parent signature still blank because you never saw it,

picture order forms, field trip permission slips etc.
The task usually takes about an hour at least because there

are 5 people in my household and my kids’ school hasn’t yet figured out how to

send me one set of weekly announcements and billfolds so I end up getting them

in triplicate form from each of my three children.  I get all the paper despite the fact that the papers are also

available electronically at the kids’ school website! Oy.
Before even sorting, I have to recoup the mini piles that

have built up on various tables everywhere along my home.  This is the case even though I had previously

set up a basket in the entry way table designated

for that stuff and had a nice organized accordion file system all set up to help

manage school papers.
The plan is always easier than the execution.  The build up is the enemy because with you

being the only one to understand your “system”, it is also up to you, with your

500 item to-do-list to keep up with it. *sigh*
I sort the papers into three piles: 1) trash, 2) read and file

away and 3) sign and stick in a kids’ folder and send them with it for their next

school day, with a reminder to apologize to the teacher (Parent of the year award, I will not be getting.).

Phew!!

P.I.T.A (Pain in the ass) Part II: The laundry


Another beast is laundry. 
I am fortunate to have a spouse who

washes and dries clothes weekly. He even irons the kids’ uniforms and folds

them away. I’m grateful but with all that work he does, he has no time finish all the crap that needs to be done to truly harness the laundry piles.  Thus, I get the task of having to sort the rest of the piles, quarter off the stuff they won’t ever wear again that should be chucked

in the Goodwill pile (which will stay there for weeks before they find their way into garbage bags, another week before the bags make it into the trunk of a minivan before another month passes and they eventually get to Goodwill at last); and then put all the folded stuff in their drawers and

hang up the rest in closets.
Also, if someone doesn’t find and fold away all those

various socks, your kids are doomed to become known as” bozo the clown socks

wearer” forever.   This just  after your nagging your kids about the importance of daily teeth brushing staved off

from a sentence of being known as “stinky breath McStinkser” finally worked and

they’re doing it on their own without daily reminders.
Laundry can take 4 to 5 hours for a large household of 5 or

more.  Then you have the arduous task of making sure

everyone has sufficient things to wear for the next 7 days until you repeat the

process. If not, you’re off to Walmart to pick up the 12th pack of tube socks you bought that year.

 Damn you, Sock Monster!

It’s all a good reason why you need to pray for an

inheritance or buy your lottery tickets regularly so you can finally get the household

wait staff you deserve.
(smile)

Until then, Godspeed parents

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