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You’ve Survived the Move . . .  Now What?



By Julie Etter



The house hunting is done, the boxes are all in, and you are in your new home! All is perfect, right?  It will be, but may not be just yet!  In reality, the next chapter has just begun, and you want to write it carefully. Settling into your new house can be an exciting experience, but don’t overlook the necessary steps to make it “HOME.”  Here are a few quick steps to making that house a home to ensure everyone is on board with setting up the space to best accommodate your family.

  • Let the children have a say in some décor—perhaps it’s a paint color for their room, or input on the wall where the couch will be positioned.  Your children’s involvement will add a delightful personal touch. It’s now HOME.
  • Offer some consistency. Yes, it’s a new house and fresh start, but did you have a staple painting in the last eating area? Was the snack cabinet set up a certain way? You will find there are natural things you do for your set-up (e.g., glasses go in the cabinet above the dishwasher), but don’t overlook the chance to create consistency in areas that are seemingly insignificant to you because they offer familiarity to the children.
  • Be efficient and get settled as soon as possible. This is easier said than done. You are exhausted from the move. Oh, and you still have jobs and a family to take care of. However, the sooner the house is settled (you know, the “main” stuff . . . your box of high school trophies that has followed you for years can stay unpacked), the sooner the kids will acclimate. Children are resilient; the sooner they can depend on stability in their surroundings, the sooner they can get comfortable.
  • Have a party! Big or small.  Celebrate the new home. Regardless of why you moved and if this home is bigger, smaller, better or worse, it’s yours! Celebrate new beginnings. Also, make a specific point of paying attention to the things your kids point out to guests—you will find they will be very open while giving a tour.  Take note of the positives you can further accentuate or the “negatives” you could improve based on their perception.

Finally, and most importantly, give yourself a pat on the back. You are on the other end of the move and despite the late nights, details, and boxes, you are in. Your kids know how hard you worked; time to enjoy with them . . . after you give yourself another cup of coffee!!



Julie Etter is a professional, national award-winning realtor and former middle-school teacher based in Wrentham, MA. She is the author of Lily and Andrew Are Moving (Hardcover, $14.95; Kindle, $11.99), published by JT Publications, LLC. For more information, visit www.treehousebuddies.com

13 Last Minute Ideas for Baby’s First Easter

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When it comes to celebrating firsts, there’s something special about celebrating that first Easter together.  While your baby is a bit too small to help you with a lot of things, she’ll enjoy watching you decorate the house, color Easter eggs and prepare yummy foods. During your celebration don’t forget to take lots of photos. You’ll want to be sure to include them with her other “firsts” in her scrapbook.

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Coloring eggs

This time honored tradition of coloring Easter eggs started because eggs are a symbol of rebirth.  More than 500 years ago the first book was written mentioning Easter eggs.  Some Christians would not eat meat during Lent and so Easter was the first time they could eat eggs and meat again.  One common game that was played was an egg rolling contest which symbolized the rolling away of the stone on Christ’s tomb.  Your baby will love the look of colored eggs.  Beware, though. It may be a good idea to wait until your child is older to let her eat them.  If you’re looking for egg-coloring inspiration, check out these five blogs.

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Egg Hunt

Many churches and cities hold large Easter egg hunts every year.  The nice thing about these places is that they let the groups go according to age.  You and your little one can run out looking for eggs.  Many times the eggs are just lying on the grass and easy to find.  Invite some other kids over and throw your own Easter egg hunt.  Of the many kinds of events you can host this is probably one of the easiest ones you can do.  If money is tight you can always ask each guest to bring a dozen filled eggs with them so that you don’t have to provide all of the filled eggs and the food for the event.  Have a good time and take a look at these five blog entries to get some tips on egg hunts.

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Desserts

Everyone needs a dessert for Easter dinner.  For baby’s first Easter he may or may not be eating a lot of solid foods, but these desserts are kid-friendly desserts that are perfect for the whole family.  Traditional Easter desserts might be carrot cake or pineapple cake.  Bakers have branched out over the years to include all sorts of edible delights for Easter dinner.  These five blog posts will show traditional, light and decadent Easter desserts.

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Easter Baskets

Typically the Easter bunny leaves a basket for little boys and girls.  You can buy a pre-made Easter basket at the discount store if you are pressed for time, but why would you when it’s so simple to put one together yourself.  There are different levels of Easter baskets, from simple to over-the-top.  These basket ideas have so many cute things that no one will even miss the candy.  So no matter what kind of basket you want to give your little one on her first Easter you should be able to find some ideas within these five blog posts.

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This Nursing Cami Lifts, Supports and Provides Modest Coverage (REVIEW)

We reviewed the new Nursing Cami, one of the newest offerings of Ruby Ribbon, the hybrid direct and online sales company known for their innovative shapewear.

Our reviewer, Tashae, a brand new mom to 2 month old Micah, said the product came quickly in the mail and she absolutely loved it! It was easy to release the snap to nurse her baby boy. The fact that the cami has a wire free nursing bra sworn in makes the cami wearable underneath a sweater, blouse or shirt. It has compression fabric that also does wonders to smooth and trim the tummy area. The compression also helps to support the back.

While it is on the pricey side at $89, it is not out of the range for top quality shapewear out there. The cami comes in 32-46 and can support any cup size from B to DDD to G.

If you’re not aware of the story behind the brand and company, it’s an awesome one. Ruby Ribbon was founded by Anna Zornosa and sells through independent consultant sellers, mainly women, and raised $11.5 million in venture funding after a $3 million seed round led by Trinity Ventures in May 2012 and an $8.5 million Series B round led by Mohr Davidow Ventures in early 2013.

In sum, Ruby Ribbon was created by women, sold by women and funded by women with a model similar to the Pampered Chef and StellaDot.

Good stuff!

Posh Easter Baskets Are Trending

 

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Posh parents are foregoing the traditional Easter baskets  filled with candy, plastic toys, and bubbles and opting for baskets with more expensive items inside.

One New York City mom, Laura Rolston, told local station CBS that she is having her son Christopher’s picture taken with the Easter Bunny at Roosevelt Field Mall and then giving him a basket of clothes and more elaborate gifts.

“Stuffed animals and bath toys and stuff like that,” the Patchogue resident told the station. “Little clothing for him. It’s definitely a little more than when I was a kid. I’m a new parent and I’m excited and I don’t mind spoiling my little boy a bit.”

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It’s part of a new trend to make Easter baskets that rival the best birthday and Christmas presents — complete with clothing, toys, and even electronics.

Some parents say the extravagant and gift filled Easter basket are a result of parents’ tried to steer their kids away from eating so much candy. Still, others say it’s gone too far.

“We hear that these baskets, parents are putting them online and saying, ‘Look at my basket, my basket is bigger and better than the other basket’ and again, at the end of the day, it should be about tradition, should be about a holiday, shouldn’t be about who has the biggest, better, most awesome, expensive basket,”  Lyss Stern of the DivaMoms.com blog told a local Fox station.

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“We hear that these baskets, parents are putting them online and saying, ‘Look at my basket, my basket is bigger and better than the other basket’ and again, at the end of the day, it should be about tradition, should be about a holiday, shouldn’t be about who has the biggest, better, most awesome, expensive basket,” Stern told MyFoxZone.

Guide to Explaining Holy Week To Children

This week is Holy Week for Catholics and Christians that are preparing for Easter.

EHow assembled an excellent summary of the week that can be used for helping parents explain the holiday to their children.

It is instructional also for non-Catholics as well who may want to understand or explain the holiday for themselves or their children too.

 Palm Sunday

When Jesus arrived in Jerusalem on his donkey, there were many followers who wanted to see him. People crowded around him and called his name. Many called out “King” or “Savior.”

Worshipers knelt down and waved palm fronds as Jesus passed by. Children and grownups wanted to hear him speak to them. They wanted to touch him. Sick people wanted their Savior to make them well. Another name for this day is Fig Sunday.

Holy Monday and Tuesday

Some people believe that on the Monday of Holy Week, Jesus freed the animals being sold and killed. The freeing of the many sheep and oxen has been compared to the slaves being set free. Tuesday is the day that the Pharisees got together and made a plan to gang up on Jesus and kill him. Holy Monday and Tuesday are not major days for celebration, but the events did lead up to Jesus’ death.

Spy Wednesday

Judas had been Jesus’ good friend, but he got jealous that so many people loved Jesus. Judas got together with the Pharisees and said he would play a trick on Jesus and kill him.

Today, many people go to church on Ash Wednesday to remember this day. A priest will put ashes from burned palm fronds on a person’s forehead in the shape of a cross and say a prayer.

Holy Thursday

The Last Supper was on this day. Jesus sat down to eat with 12 other people. Those people were the disciples. His friend Judas was there that night. Jesus shared his bread and wine with everyone. He told the disciples that it was more important to serve someone else than to be served.

He lovingly washed the feet of his disciples. After the meal was over, Jesus wanted to be alone to pray. Guards appeared a short time later and he was arrested.

Good Friday

Jesus was forced to make a huge cross and drag it up a hill all by himself. He had a crown on his head made of a branch of thorns. He was nailed to the cross by his hands and feet. One of the ways Good Friday is celebrated is by fasting, which means not eating at all. It is a day to mourn the death of Jesus, but also to celebrate that he gave his life for everyone.

Holy Saturday or Black Sabbath

After Jesus died, he was put in a tomb. The tomb was like a cave. The guards rolled a big rock in front of the opening to make sure that no one could get in or out. They knew that Jesus was dead, but they still wanted to close off the opening just to make sure he didn’t get out. Some of the ways to commemorate this day are meditating, praying, and lighting candles in church.

There you have it!!

Viral: This Mom Reps Us Parents Who Are ‘Yellers’ (VIDEO)

Raise your hand and can we get an Amen from all you parents out there who, for one reason or another, have become a ‘Yeller’. It’s a parenting style for getting things done and achieving compliance from children. It gets a bad rap but Meredith from “That’s Inappropriate” channel recently broke it down for you calm and gentle speaking parents out there who might not get it.

As a matter of fact, if you are not a  yeller, you might shake your head at us Yellers, and look confused when you’re in their own bedroom and hear your friendly neighborhood yeller hollering at her kids all the way from the inside of your home 200 yards and a whole driveway away.

But the truth of the matter is Meredith is preaching to a certain segment.

Here her out in this now viral video that has garnered 6 million views on Facebook. I don’t know about yall, but I’m totally subscribing to her channel and blog and plan to catch up on her other videos. This woman gets me.

8 Things To Consider When Picking A Daycare Center

Occasionally, we hear scary stories on the news about abuse at day care facilities and other disturbing things about care provider. It’s quite a scary thing. But parents don’t have to go into it blindly.

Before you enroll your children in the local daycare center, there are a few issues common to other working parents that you may want to consider. Babysitter.net offers these following suggestions for your to take note of:

1. Exposure to Germs and Illness – Even in the cleanest and most well-supervised facilities, babies and toddlers will be exposed to germs and illnesses from one another that they simply would not encounter at home. This can be as mild as a frequent runny nose or lingering cough, or as serious as a severe cold or flu. Kids can be contagious before they begin to exhibit real symptoms of illness, meaning that it’s important for parents to understand that mild to moderate sicknesses are a very real possibility for a child in daycare.

2. Neglect – Most daycare centers do have enough oversight and some policies in place to prevent children from ever being the victims of abuse or mistreatment. Even well-intentioned hourly workers can be somewhat guilty of neglect, though, especially in a situation where one or two workers are responsible for a large number of kids. Provider-to-child ratios in large daycare centers are often far from ideal, leaving many parents justifiably concerned about the quality of care their children are receiving.

3. Food Allergy and Sensitivity Issues – When there are 30 children to feed and only two or three aides to accomplish the task, it’s easy for information about food allergies or sensitivities to fall to the wayside. In some cases, exposure to problematic foods causes discomfort but is ultimately harmless, while other situations can be very serious or even fatal.

4. Expenses – In situations where there is only one child enrolled in center-based care, it may be less expensive to opt for the center than to hire a private childcare provider. What many parents don’t realize, however, is that expenses can increase dramatically with each new enrollment. Therefore, the affordable option can become prohibitively expensive as your family grows.

5. Caregiver Turnover – With the exception of the most high-end centers, most workers in daycare centers are paid low wages with few to no benefits. As a result, turnover is a very common problem, and not just for center administrators. When workers come and go, your child may have a difficult time forming a bond with the person who looks after him. This lack of consistency makes it hard for him to become comfortable and feel secure with one reliable, dedicated worker.

6. Late Pick-Up Policies – Overtime is par for the professional course for many of today’s working parents, but that news doesn’t always seem to trickle down to daycare center policymakers. From pricey fees for late pickups to termination of contracts, failing to pick your child up within the proper time frame can become a very serious issue with his daycare center.

7. Negative Influences and Environments – Because you’re not in charge or even present in a daycare center setting, your control over what your child is exposed to and what disciplinary methods can be used is somewhat limited. It’s not uncommon for the parents of children enrolled in center-based care to feel very real concern about what influences their kids are being exposed to when they’re not available to monitor the situation.

8. Other Children – It’s never very popular or polite to say that other peoples’ children are problematic influences or bullies, but it is an issue for some parents nonetheless. From communicable diseases to bad habits and bad language, from pushing to biting, there are a variety of unsavory behaviors your child can be exposed to at the hands of his young peers.

Take your time. Don’t rush into it and make sure you do all your homework before entrusting your child in the care of anyone or facility!

Study: Moms Work is Two and Half Jobs

Taking care of children really is a full-time job; in fact, it’s two and a half, according to research which has found that the time mothers spend on parent-related tasks is equal to a 98-hour work week.

The US survey of 2,000 mothers of children aged five to 12 reveals that the average mother will “clock-in” at 6.23am and continue to conduct motherly duties until 8.31pm on a normal day.

This amount of time breaks down to mothers working a 14-hour shift seven days a week, extending far beyond the hours of any ‘normal’ job.

The research into the numerous pressures faced by mothers was commissioned by American juice brand Welch’s and also found that the average mother manages to save just an hour and seven minutes for herself every day. The study also revealed that 40% of mothers feel their life is dominated by a never-ending to-do list.

“The results of the survey highlight just how demanding the role of mother can be and the non-stop barrage of tasks it consists of,” said Casey Lewis, the lead of health and nutrition at Welch’s. “Busy mums may identify with the list of ‘lifesavers’, which highlights not just a rigorous workload but a constant requirement to feed and fuel the family, week in and week out.”

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Here’s How to Dress the Kids For Easter

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Easter is around the corner. For many families, that also means it’s time to start hunting down that perfect Easter dress or suit.  Dressing in Sunday’s best for church service is customary. And even for non-religious families, drive essing up for Easter Egg Hunts or photos with the Easter Bunny at the mall present a good opportunity to have and excuse to buy digs for the kids.

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Girls usually wear headbands, white tights, patent leather Mary Janes and floral dresses with pastel sweater. Easter is also a great time for a little girl to wear her first string of pearls (authentic or faux) and other nice jewelry from Baptism, Christening, Christmas that parents just store away for special occasions.

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And of course, their pretty dresses. 

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Boys are outfitted in smart suits with vest jackets.

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Another option to a formal suit is a nice dress shirt in Spring colors, pastels or plaid or another nice print.

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Or, even more casual, a little boy could wear a colorful polo shirt and khaki shorts or plants.

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Our friends and partners at Gymboree are having a 50% off Sale for Spring and Easter dress shopping.

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20 Saint Patrick’s Day Crafts For the Family

 

While everyone knows that St. Patrick’s Day is a holiday, it’s unlikely that many know the story behind St. Patrick’s Day.

In a nutshell, a man named Patrick converted a large group of Irish people from Paganism to Christianity and was made a Saint.  Now considered the patron saint of Ireland, St. Patrick used the shamrock as the symbol of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  The color green is used because of the rich green hills that are found all over Ireland.  You may be wondering how St. Patrick’s Day turned into a day for drinking, and there is a reason for that too.  St. Patrick told a bar owner who was cheating his customers by pouring short glasses of liquor that there was a demon in his basement and that the only way to be rid of it was to be generous.  After that, St. Patrick said that everyone should celebrate with some of the hard stuff on St. Patrick’s Day. However, the holiday isn’t solely reserved for those of legal drinking age; there are plenty of family-friendly things to do to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day too.

Check out these 20+ blog entries to find craft projects to make with the kids, decorations for your home, recipes to make for your family and other activities to do as well.

Crafts

Make these simple crafts with your kids as part of your celebration of St. Patrick’s Day.  This often overlooked holiday can be really entertaining if you make a point to celebrate it just like you would other holidays with special crafts, decorations and food.  These five blog posts will share some craft projects you can enjoy with your kids.

Decorations

Up your house’s festivity factor this St. Patrick’s Day by decorating in plenty of green and gold. Some of these decorating ideas are appropriate for younger children, while others are better suited for the older kids.  Get together as a family and enjoy some creative time together decorating your home.

Meals

All things green are up for grabs on St. Patrick’s Day.  What, you don’t think your kids will be excited about spinach and kale and other green leafy food?  No problem! Just make regular food green instead and see what the kids think of it.  It doesn’t have to be just for dinner, enjoy these five blogs that have breakfast, lunch and dinner ideas.

Desserts

While green is definitely the star color for St. Patrick’s Day, it isn’t all confined to just that color. After all, you can’t forget about the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.  Make some rainbow inspired desserts instead of just green ones this year.  For some inspiration check out these five blog posts.

Activities

What kind of things can you do as a family or with the kids for St. Patrick’s Day?  Some cities have St. Patty’s Day parades, so you might see if your city is having one.  Or you might decide to have a party for the kids in the neighborhood.  Take a look at these five blog articles for some ideas on activities that your kids or your family might enjoy.

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